Effective ways to prolong a holiday romance
Holliday romances, alas, rarely end on a positive note. Usually this is just a bright flash, a non-binding relationship, an adrenaline rush. But what if you really liked the person?
What are you looking for?
If you meet a person which you like during your rest, let him know immediately that you are looking for a stable relationship. This will let you know if the potential partner shares your intentions. This will save both your and his time.
But it's better not to think about it. You don’t have enough time to flirt and test a person. Dive into a new feeling and enjoy!
Think of safety
Many people feel embarrassed about buying condoms. However, if you have agreed on an adventure, than you can't be too shy. Don't forget about safety. By the way, this applies not only to intimate relationships. If you decide to go on a date with a stranger in a foreign country, let your friends know about it. Anything can happen.
You need to understand that passion and love are completely different concepts. Therefore, opening your soul on the seaside is not the best idea. You may think that you have deep feelings for him, but in reality these are just endorphins. And certainly do not touch on the topic of weddings, the birth of children and the choice of wallpaper in the bedroom, otherwise your hero-lover will run away.
Can it be real love?
If you still feel more than just sexual desire, you should adhere to a number of rules:
1. Exchange contacts and when you return home continue communication, go on dates. It will help you bond and get to know each other better.
2. Lead a normal life. The vacation has come to an end, and you have lots of things to do. Don't devote all your time to the person you like. Think about yourself first.
3. If your sympathy is mutual and you want to strengthen the relationship, plan a new vacation. Go there together. So you can get to know each other better, dive into the world of feelings, and also understand the prospects of your relationship.
Don't forget to get real after your vacation!